YOU
CAN GET RID OF YOUR GUILT FEELING
Have you a
guilt feeling? If your answer is yes, that is alright. I want you to know that
you are not the first person neither will you be the last person to have guilt
feeling. For your information, a sense of guilt is good. However, if you refuse
to get rid of your guilt feeling, it is then dangerous and deadly.
Every human
being no matter how good or bad he/she may be will sometimes experience a
feeling of guilt, and this feeling is the result of conscience that is given to
us by God. There is no living person that does not have conscience, though some
people might have deadened their own and make it looks as if they didn’t have
it, yet it is there and can be awakened at any time.
There are
several examples of people that had guilt feelings and get rid of it and move
on in life without letting guilt feeling destroying their destinies. They are
motivated to the highest moral standard to worthwhile pursuit and aspiration.
The top on the
list was a righteous man who hated and unrelentingly persecuted people of religious minority. Later he developed a
feeling of guilt. Then he righted his wrong when his feeling of guilt motivated
him to desirable action. He became a great preacher. And his thoughts, words,
and actions have changed the history of the world during the past two thousand
years. That man was Saul of Tarsus.
Therefore, you
too can get rid of your guilt feeling and make this world becomes a better
place to live.
There was a
story of a woman I will call lady Shadino(not a real name but a true life
story), Shadino had got married to a loving husband who tried all his best to
satisfy Shadino sexually. But despite the Shadino’ husband effort, Shadino
still kept two of her former boyfriends and she always make has sex with either
of them at least twice in a week. Shadino knew it is wrong and she had feeling
of guilt. It seemed that she found herself doing the same thing repeatedly, and
this put her to become worse, but instead of her to make good use of guilt
feeling, this was affecting her negatively.
Such are those
experiences of many people.
Feelings of
guilt have led people to do many unwarranted things like destroying their
lives, injure themselves in other to atone for their wrong doing. But that is
not the right way to get rid of guilt feelings – infact, going that way make it
worse.
There are better ways and permanent ways to get rid
of guilt feelings:
The steps to take are these:
1. God-factor:
God is the creator of conscience, he puts it there, and he knows how it works,
the first step is that you come to God.
2. Then you thank God for all he has done for
you, the blessing he has given to you – this is very important – you show
your appreciation to God that he creates you and even make your conscience
works that you can feel guilty of your wrong doing.(This may sound awkward but
it really works).
3. You feel sincerely sorry for your wrong
doing and ask God for your forgiveness, confess all your wrong doing to
him, and truly repent of them.
4. Then you begin to right /correct every
wrong, this may involve going to counselor or those that are “genuinely”
men or women of God(please note emphasis is on genuine) if you further need
assistant.
5. When you are tempted to do wrong, the
conscience will whisper to you. When it does, stop and listen. Thank God, then
make strong decision to do the right things.
6. Everyday say repeatedly to yourself “By
the grace of God on my life I am free from feeling of guilt, Jesus has set me
free”. As you do so, make sure you block any avenue that may want you remember
it.
7. Once you are free and get rid of your
guilt, you too can even help people by sharing your experience in a helpful
way.
God bless you.
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